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Nerves before a hard day are normal. When worry keeps returning and life starts shrinking around it, a few concrete examples can make a first conversation useful.

Ordinary nerves or something more persistent?

Feeling tense before a job interview or a hard conversation is part of life. It is a different matter when worry keeps returning, broken sleep becomes the norm, or you start declining invitations and tasks you once managed. People who come to a multi-therapy clinic sometimes try a massage or a relaxing session first and later wonder whether talking with someone would suit them better.

Physical sensations such as a racing heart, chest tightness or stomach upset also deserve attention. They should not automatically be put down to anxiety, and checking them with your GP is a sensible step.

What to bring to a first conversation

Dr Christine Shen, Acupuncturist, also holds qualifications in psychotherapy and offers psychological treatment at the Lane Cove clinic. You do not need a diagnosis before you book. Instead, a few concrete examples can make the first meeting more productive:

• a situation or activity you now avoid;
• a worry that keeps coming back;
• changes to your sleep, appetite or concentration;
• strategies or support you have already tried.

Together you can look at what has become harder and decide whether psychological treatment fits your needs, or whether a medical review should come first or run alongside it.

Shaping the work around your priorities

Therapy is easier to engage with when it reflects what matters to you. You might want to understand a pattern, reduce avoidance, or feel more able to handle one particular situation. It is fair to say which changes feel daunting and to agree on how you will notice progress in your own terms.

Ask Christine how the plan will be revisited over time and what options exist if your circumstances shift between sessions. If anxiety ever feels overwhelming or you feel unsafe, contact your GP, emergency services or a crisis line straight away.

Choosing support is a personal decision, and comparing options is reasonable. A first appointment in Lane Cove can simply be a chance to describe what is happening and hear how psychological treatment might fit.